Life is what happens to most marriages. You know things like jobs, kids, kid’s activities, extended family, television, hobbies and other things. Those things take up so much time there is little time left to work on marriage. And regardless of what we thought in the beginning, marriage does take work. While it certainly does take work it should not be a chore. If marriage is important to us and a happy lasting marriage a priority, the work should be a labor of love not a dreaded task.